Pacifiers/Dummies?

I would try a dummy to see if it helps. Your family aren't that keen on them but they're not the ones up half the night with a crying baby which isn't a lot of fun lol Which would they prefer, a happy baby with a dummy or a cranky and unhappy one without. The baby's welfare should come first!!Sometimes you feel like night feeds will never end but they do eventually. It doesn't make you a bad mum because your little one has a dummy. Just common sense I think. Every baby is different. Go with what feels right for you. Best of luck!!